Teach me your way, O LORD, that I may walk in your truth; give me an undivided heart to revere your name. --Psalm 86:11
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Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Lord, Teach Us to Pray



We humans have a tendency to turn our religious beliefs and practices into something about us. Things meant to be God-focused and God-exalting, we make self-centered and self-serving.
This is sometimes true of prayer. Something meant to nurture relationship with God, we turn into a laundry list of requests. Something meant to change our hearts, we use to try to change God’s plan.

Jesus’ disciples saw something different about the way he prayed. It was not about him. In Luke 11, they asked him to teach them to pray. Why? They had seen amazing things happen when Jesus prayed. While praying at his baptism, the heavens opened, the Spirit descended and God affirmed Jesus messianic identity. While praying on the mountain, Jesus inner circle of disciples saw him transfigured and God spoke confirming Jesus as his Son. The disciples saw Jesus pray before miraculously multiplying bread and fish. They knew that when he prayed, God acted. They knew Jesus’ prayers were about his God-given mission, not his self-driven program. They wanted to learn. So Jesus taught them to pray.

To teach them, he gave them what we now know as the Lord’s Prayer. The longer and more familiar version is in Matthew 6:9-13. It starts with God, intimate (Father) yet transcendent (in the heavens). It’s about God’s reputation, God’s name being sanctified, that is, cleansed of all the grime smeared upon it by fallen people. It’s about seeing God as he truly is: holy and glorious. It’s about God’s kingdom, his rule and reign over his creation. Implication: we are dethroned and we submit. It’s about God’s will, not ours. How often we pray for our own will “in Jesus’ name,” and give no thought to whether our agenda has any resemblance to his. We say things like:

Please heal
No complications
Relieve his stress, pain
Fast recovery
Return to what she loves
And so on

There is rarely any acknowledgment in prayer of what we know to be true upon reflection: God has a purpose in our pain and does his best character-forming work during our toughest tests and darkest days.

I’m not saying we shouldn’t pray for help, relief or provision. Indeed, the Lord’s Prayer goes on to request daily bread, forgiveness, preservation from trial and salvation from evil. But all these requests come from the position of humility established by the former, God-focused lines of the prayer.

Jesus is again our example. In his darkest hour, alone and in anguish, he prayed, “Father, take this cup from me. Yet not my will, but yours be done.” And in that act of submission – and suffering – God’s kingdom came.

Let’s learn from our Lord’s life and his prayer. Let’s praise first. Let’s make it about God more than us. Let’s follow Jesus in denying our self-sovereignty and praying, “May your kingdom to come and your will be done.”

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Virtue: The Character of Spiritual Renewal


We learn a lot from our parents. In countless situations when my mother was flustered, frustrated or waiting, I’ve seen her sigh deeply and utter the words, “Patience is a virtue.” Though in many ways, my mom is one of the most patient people I know, life – especially the life of a parent – is full of situations that test our patience. Thus my mom’s need to remind herself that it was a virtue worth cultivating.

My mom’s saying taught me that virtue had something to do with character qualities we should strive to attain. But that was the extent of my understanding until recently, when I read N. T. Wright’s excellent book, After You Believe: Why Christian CharacterMatters. Since then, I’ve grown excited about the concept of virtue and about how its recovery by American evangelicals could revolutionize our efforts in discipleship.

This post is the last in a series about the process of spiritual renewal. To recap: spiritual renewal happens when our will and action join up with God’s will and action to renovate our hearts so that our bodily life becomes the true expression of the spiritual life God gives us. We participate with the indwelling Holy Spirit, who generates this change. Our role is to engage in disciplined training of mind and body, so that our habits change and our life is marked by Christlikeness through and through.

The purpose of disciplined training is to produce virtue. Broadly understood, virtue simply means moral excellence or noble character. More specifically, virtue is good character forged and formed by determined practice. A virtue is strength of character that we are not born with, but which, when cultivated, becomes an ingrained part of who we are.

N. T. Wright explains:

Virtue. . .is what happens when someone has made a thousand small choices, requiring effort and concentration to do something which is good and right, but which doesn’t “come naturally”—and then, on the thousand and first time, when it really matters, they find they do what’s required “automatically”. . . Virtue is what happens when wise and courageous choices become “second nature.”[1]

In the rest of his book, Wright argues – and this is a crucial point for Christian discussions of virtue ethics – that virtues allow humans to do what God designed and created us for: to worship and serve God aright and to love others authentically. The kind of life produced by virtue, therefore, fulfills our deepest human longings and leads to a joyful, focused, flourishing life. It leads to true “happiness,” not in the anemic modern sense of pleasurable satisfaction but in the deep sense in which ancient philosophers spoke of happiness: a life well-lived, characterized by goodness, contentment and peace.[2]

Because the transformation from vice to virtue aligns us with our God-given purpose, we begin to find pleasure in doing God’s will, which once seemed burdensome at best and senseless at worst. Like the psalmist, we learn to delight in God’s Law because we become the kind of people who want to follow it.[3] We also delight in discipleship, since Jesus’ teaching sums up both Law and Prophets[4] and obeying him means doing God’s will and entering God’s Kingdom.[5] Following Jesus becomes joyful, because we realize that the way of self-denial and self-giving love is really, paradoxically, the secret to satisfaction,[6] despite the world’s pressure to assert our power, pursue our “rights,” and do whatever we want.

So if spiritual renewal aims at virtue, which makes us flourish as servants of our God and King, then the logical question to ask is: Which virtues should we strive for? Which character qualities should our disciplined apprenticeship to Jesus aim to produce?

Aristotle, whose Nichomachean Ethics is the seminal work on virtue, believed that a truly happy life hangs on four “hinge”[7] virtues: courage, justice, prudence and temperance. The Apostle Paul entered the discourse on virtue by commending nine kinds of “fruit,” which the Spirit produces in believers who are being transformed. Paul’s list is quite comprehensive: love – the paramount Christian virtue – joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.[8] The apostle James, too, defines the qualities God’s heavenly wisdom, which we can embody. It is “first pure, then peaceful, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without a trace of partiality or hypocrisy.”[9] The overlap of these qualities with Jesus’ beatitudes is striking. Jesus follows lead of Israel’s great prophets by highlighting virtues that are foundational to faithful obedience under the reign of God. Chief among these are righteousness and justice,[10] simplicity,[11] and humility.[12] All the virtues are rooted in humility, because it is the heart orientation that makes them all possible.

These virtues are the stuff of Godliness. They are God’s own character traits that we are called to embody in our relationships with God and others.

They are, of course, not natural,[13] but, through discipleship to Jesus, they can become “second nature.” That is why Paul urges Timothy, “Train yourself in godliness.”[14] Our training joins with and makes way for the powerful work of God’s Spirit, who renews our minds, renovates our hearts and reactivates our bodies. The goal is character transformation. God makes us mature and complete, so we can see him as he is, worship him as we ought, and reflect his glory as he made us to do.


[1] N. T. Wright, After You Believe: Why Christian Character Matters (New York: HarperCollins, 2010), 20-21.
[2] On which, see J. P. Moreland and Klaus Issler, TheLost Virtue of Happiness: Discovering the Disciplines of the Good Life. Colorado Springs: NavPress, 2006.
[3] Psalm 1:2; 119:69-70
[4] Matthew 7:12; 22:35-40
[5] Matthew 7:14, 21, 24
[6] See, e.g., Luke 9:24-25
[7] We know them as “Cardinal Virtues,” from the Latin cardo, which means “hinge.”
[8] Galatians 5:22-23
[9] James 3:17
[10] E.g., Matthew 5:6, 10, 20; 6:33
[11] E.g., Matthew 5:8; 6:19-24, 33; 13:44-46; Luke 6:43-45
[12] E.g., Matthew 5:5; 18:4; Mark 9:35; Luke 18:9-14
[13] In fact, John Dickson argues in his recent book, Humilitas, that Jesus was the first moral teacher to make humility a positive virtue. But that same virtue is at the heart of our salvation, for Jesus did not consider equality with God something to be clung to, but made himself nothing, became a servant, humbled himself, and obeyed God even to the point of death (Phil 2:5-8)!
[14] 1 Timothy 4:8